Jan 21Reader responses to the Climate ShadowA couple of months ago, I published an article on the “Climate Shadow”, a coin I had termed to describe the full impact of an individual’s… — A couple of months ago, I published an article on the “Climate Shadow”, a coin I had termed to describe the full impact of an individual’s life on climate change. …Climate Change3 min read
Nov 4, 2021It’s hard to write about the future — but that can’t stop usIn 2014, Ursula Le Guin gave a speech at the National Book Awards: — In 2014, Ursula Le Guin gave a speech at the National Book Awards: “I think hard times are coming, when we will be wanting the voices of writers who can see alternatives to how we live now and can see through our fear-stricken society and its obsessive technologies to other…Climate Change3 min read
Jun 15, 2021How I wrote a novel draft during maternity leaveBefore having my son, I agonized over how much writing I could expect to get done during his first couple years of life. After years of… — Before having my son, I agonized over how much writing I could expect to get done during his first couple years of life. After years of working full-time in marketing, and then as a copywriter, I had finally decided to focus on my fiction writing. …Motherhood7 min read
Apr 14, 2021Are you a genius, or are you a Gob?<iframe src=”https://giphy.com/embed/11a9K7FLvTD9Kw" width=”480" height=”308" frameBorder=”0" class=”giphy-embed”… — Last week, my writing coach asked me to identify the worst possible outcome of finishing the novel I’ve been working on for the past eighteen months. That it would be bad? That people would be bored? That I would feel vulnerable? I felt TERRIFIED of something but I couldn’t…Creative Writing4 min read
Published in Elemental·Apr 5, 2021Anxiety Is in Your Body, Not Your MindWhy you might want to stop talking about your anxiety and try this instead — Let’s back up 50,000 years or so. Imagine you’re a Neanderthal taking a leisurely stroll through the fields. Suddenly, in the nearby bushes, you hear a tiger. In a nanosecond, your entire body starts reacting. Your pulse quickens, your breathing gets shallow, your eyes dilate, your body starts producing adrenaline. …Anxiety7 min read
Mar 28, 2021…my head, “go back.” It hadn’t occurred to me that the place I was born was a place I didn’t belong. The phrase “lucky to be here” feels like that moment: a reminder that you aren’t welcome. It’s a grown-up way of saying, “Go back to China.”What Does It Mean to Be ‘Lucky to Be Here’?1.1K9Kristin WongThis is such a profound statement. Love this piece!This is such a profound statement. Love this piece!1 min readThis is such a profound statement. Love this piece!----1
Published in Forge·Nov 27, 2020How to Reboot Your Relationship in 90 MinutesPandemic relationship repair you can tackle tonight — The year 2020 has been a total romance killer. Most of us are stuck at home with our partners, juggling childcare, Zoom schooling, and full-time jobs. We’re stressed about money, Covid, and politics. Plus, we’re all wearing sweatpants… all the time. It’s no surprise that divorces are spiking. I know…Relationships5 min read
Published in Forge·Nov 5, 2019Gossip Is GoodWait until Alice hears this — Gossip can be awful. Being the subject of malicious gossip is pretty much the ur-nightmare of adolescence. I still remember being 13 and having a group of girls circle me in the bathroom, insisting that I show them my breasts because they’d heard a rumor that I stuffed my bra…Connect4 min read
Oct 13, 2016Are you the worst?For two years, every Monday night, I’ve been taking this Bootcamp class. The instructor, we’ll call him Rambo, is like a greek god crossed… — For two years, every Monday night, I’ve been taking this Bootcamp class. The instructor, we’ll call him Rambo, is like a greek god crossed with Fabio. I’m the worst one in the class. For two years, I’ve been the last person to finish suicides, the only one doing girly pushups, a red sweaty mess struggling to breathe…Love2 min read
Published in The Billfold·Apr 13, 2016The Time I Spent a $7,000 Tax Refund in One NightWhen I was much younger (and much stupider), I dated a guy who was twenty years older than me. — When I was much younger (and much stupider), I dated a guy who was twenty years older than me. I was eighteen. I worked at a gelato shop. I drove a Volvo that was born the same year I was. It had been my mom’s and then my brother’s and…Love4 min read